HEALING AFFIRMATIONS Every person in the world has their own mind and freedom of choice. I cannot make another person want to be with me simply because I want to be with them. I recognize that I can’t control the choices of my former spouse. I might be able to influence another person’s perception but I can never control it, and trying to do so will make me so frustrated that I could end up doing things I will regret. It is in my best interest to let go, and release trying to control others, especially my former spouse. Although my spouse and I shared a certain “marital identity”, I now have to release that identity and continue to progress with my own individual identity. I do not need to compare myself to another by wondering why a different person can please my former spouse. People change, and in doing so, their needs and desires change. This situation is not a statement about my self-worth or my ability to love and be loved. It is a reflection of the changes that have taken place over time. My children need my attention now. Becoming overly self-absorbed in my own pain can magnify and distort the situation. I choose to focus my energy and thoughts on things that I can influence and change, and not on things that are beyond my control. Although I may want to strike out and hurts me, it is not in my best interest or my children’s best interest to do so. I recognize that putting out negative energy to me in some way. Therefore, I choose to send out positive e energy even when I do not feel like it.
Posted on: Tue, 21 Jan 2014 08:26:42 +0000
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