HI BALLAN SHARE ABOUT....ONE EARTH ONE HUMANITY.....LOVE IS NOT SOMETHING TO GET....LOVE IS SOMETHINGS TO GIVE...... as i am artist..i can easily put my feelings of love and bliss into making sculptures..why cant i express the same feelings to human beings and be as open to them as i am making sculptures.. it is easy to be a scluptor because you are working with lifeless objects..you can create beautiful statues but those statues are dead..you cannot relate with them..you are alive..there is no dialogue possible between life and death..you can appreciate..you can enjoy..it is your creation..you can feel fulfilled..whatever you wanted..you succeeded in doing it. but remember one things..on the others side..there is no one..you are alone..because of situation..there are people who can love their dogs..who can love their gardens..who can love their cars..who can love anything in the world except man..because man means you are not alone..the others is there..it is a dialouge..with a statue..it is a monolouge..the statue is not going to say anything..is not going to criticize you..is not going to process you..you process the statue..you can sell it in the market..but that you cannot do with a human being that is the problem..when you start relating with human beings..you have to take into consideration that they are not things..they are consciousnesses..you cannot dominate them..although almost everybody is traying to do that..and spoiling their whole life..the moment you try to dominate a human being..you are creating an enemy..because that human being also want to dominate..you may call it love..you may call it friendship..but behind the curtain of friendship and love and brotherhood there is deep is a deep will to power..you want to dominate..you dont want to be dominated..with human beings..you will be in constant conflict..the closer you are..the more the confilct will hurt you..there are thousands of people who have been so wounded by human relationship that they have dropped out of all human love..friendship..they have turned towards things..it is easier..the others party is always willing..what so ever you want to do..you are artist..you sculpt..but have you ever thought about what you are doing..you are cutting chunks of the marble..that that you cannot do to a human being..but people are doing that to human beings individuality..lovers are cutting each others continuously..to be in love with a human beings is not an easy affair..the love affair is he most difficult affair in the world for the simple reason that two consciousnesses..two alive beings..cannot tolerate any kind of slavery..when the parents say to their children dont do this even the small child feels hurt..humiliated..insulted..and hes going to do it if he has any guts..near the village where i was born..just ten miles away..every year there used to be a very religious fair..by the side of the river narmada..that is one of the sacred religious rivers in india..perhaps it is the most sacred..for a mythological reason..reason..because all others river are married...only narmada river is still virgin... there is a beautiful place where narmada river comes out of the mountain and falls in a beautiful waterfall to reach the ground..i have seen many waterfalls but that waterfall has come uniqueness of its own..it is a very black stone..extraordinarily black..ugly and the marmada falls in one thousand currents..it is not one fall..it is one thousand falls..it is the whole mountain..because of those one thousand rocks that the narmada fall has cut..there is a mythology thousands of years old..there was a very monstrous king..he want to marry narmada because..he said all river are already married..in my kingdom.i cannot allow narmada to remain un married ..so a very beautiful fair happens every year..i wanted to see those one thousand hands..and how narmada managed to remain virgin for millions of years..you will be suprised that the land where narmada flows is the ancientmost land in the world..it came first out the ocean..because in the mountainous regions from where narmada comes..you can still find..very easily..dead sea animals..and from narmada..the sea is thousands of miles away..certairly one day the mountain was under the ocean..and then the ocean receded and the first piece of earth came out of ocean..it is the most ancient part of the earth..i wanted to see the most ancient mountain..but i knew that if i asked my parents..they would say no...the place is dangerous because of all those rocks..many people have died..the whole river is full of rocks and to swim in it is dangerous..and they had said to me.. you will not be able to resist the temptation of swimming there so i did not ask them..i simply went..they were very much concerned..repoted to the police..sent a few people to look around..inguired at the railways station..the bus station where i had been seen last..but they could not find me..after three days..i came back..they were really angry..they said where have you been ...i said where i have been to the fair ...they said.. you should have at least asked us ..i said.. no..because i wanted to go..if i did not want to go..i would have asked..so remember..whenever i dont want to do something..i will ask you because i know the answer is no..and whenever i want to do something..i will simply do it..now you can do what so ever you want..if you want to beat me..you can beat me..if you want to punish me in some others way..you can do that..but this is going to be my whole lifestyle..i will never ask for a thing that i am going to do..i dont want anybody advice about it..my parents said.. are you crazy or what.??..you will ask us only about things that you dont want to do.???..i said..it is very simple..it is no simple that even god missed it..it is so obvious that even god forgot about it..he said to adam and eve..dont eat the fruits of wisdom and eternal life..every father has been doing that since then..and every adam and every eve has to rebel..if you are interested in doing something..you can do it without any problem if there is no others consciousness..you are working on object..on things they cannot say yes..they cannot say no..whatever you want to do with them you can do..but not with man..it is your fault that you have not yet become mature enough to understand that with human beings..if you want a loving relationship then you should forgrt all power politics..you can be just a friend..neither trying to dominate the others nor beings dominated by other..it is possible only if you have a certain meditativeness in your life..otherwise it is not possible..to love a human beings is one of the most difficult things in the world because the moment you start showing your love..the others starts going on a power trip..he knows you are dependent on him or on her..you can be enslaved..psychologically..spiritually..and no body wants to be a slave..but all your human relationship turn into slavery..no statue will make you slave..on the contrary..there is no conflict..the real test for love is with human beings..and a man is really intelligent if he can make a human relationship work smoothly.. it needs great insight..creating a statue or making a beautiful painting is one things..those paints wont say i dont want to be put on this corner of the canvas..i simply refuse..wherever you want it, the paint is available..but it is not so easy with human beings..every human beings has a birthright not to be dominated by anyone..but also a birth duty not try to dominate anyone..and only then friendship can flower..love needs a clarity of vision.... love needs a cleaning of all kinds of ugly things which are in your mind..jealously..anger..the desire to dominate...i have heard...in a marriage registers office..a couple came to get married..they filled out the forms..the women looked at the man..they were lovers..and they had come to the registry office against their family,,because mostly..marriage is not done in the registrsrs office it is available..legally you can do it but their happens only when you are doing somethings against the family..against the society..those two people must have been in deep love..they had revolted against the society..against the religion..against their parents..against the family..they had risked everything and they were going to be married..and the women looked at the man who was filling out the form..because she had filled out hers..and then she suddently said to the register i want an immediate divorced ... he said what happend..you are filling out froms for marriage..even the honeymoon has not happened..in fact even marrige has not happened because i have not sealed it..why do you want a divorce so suddenly..???... she said..i hate this man.. the register said..this is strange..you brought him here..she said..yes i brought him here..i uesd to love him..but when i saw his form..he has signed in such big letters..he was watching when i was signing..i signed just the way i always sign..and he has signed in letters three times bigger..almost half of the form is his signature..i dont want to live with this man..he has shown his domination..his power..the register said..then there is no need of any divorce..just throw away your forms in the wastepaper basket because i have not sealed them..and get lost,,,, such a small things..that the man was signing in big letters but it is indicative..it shows that hes male chauvinist.. what about your whole life..???everything is a problem..everything is a conflict..and the reason is that we have accepted a false idea that we knows how to love..love is a new phenomenon that has airsen with human consciousness..you will have to learn it..creating beautiful paintings..poetries..sculpture..music..dance...that all in your hands...but when you come into contact with a human being..you have to understand that on the others side the same kind of concsiousness..you have to give respest and dignity to the person you love...this is the reason why you cannot relate with human beings..forget about human beings and love......
Posted on: Sat, 09 Nov 2013 20:31:30 +0000
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