HOW MUCH DO YOUR CHILDREN REALLY MEAN TO YOU? If you are participating in any of the behaviors below, may I suggest you take a good hard look at how your behaviors are affecting them! For children, PAS is about loss, insecurity, fear, confusion, sadness, hopelessness and despair. In fact, some experts consider PAS to be a form of child abuse because: it robs children of the security that the bond they once shared with the targeted parent it embeds in children’s minds falsehoods about the targeted parent that are injurious to their own psyche and their sense of self (i.e., “Mom/Dad never really loved you”; “Mom/Dad is dangerous”; “Mom/Dad has done inappropriate things to you”) The process of aligning children against the targeted parent often involves threats, lies, manipulations, deprivation and even physical abuse For the alienating parents, PAS can have several motivators such as: feeling betrayed or rejected by the targeted parent revenge jealously fear insecurity anger money – using the children as a pawn to get a better divorce settlement. (Sommers) https://facebook/pages/Parenting-Beyond-Trauma/474079805977070?ref=hl
Posted on: Mon, 07 Jul 2014 14:31:59 +0000
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