HOW TO ENHANCE INTIMACY •You Must be Open To be intimate with your spouse, there must be no hide and seek game. You must be ready to open up to your spouse, so that your spouse can trust you. •Embrace Trust Trust is an essential ingredient in our daily living. The very essence of life depends on trust. A marriage cannot survive without trust. Trust is not a gift; it is a virtue that must be built through experience and over a period of time. Trust is reciprocal. The more you express your trust to your spouse, the more he/she responds to you in trust. You must endeavour to believe your spouse. •Be faithful To enhance intimacy in your marriage, you must be faithful to your spouse. Learn to keep secrets concerning everything your spouse tells you (Proverbs 28:20). •Express Love Be willing to express your love to your spouse, more than anyone else. Let your spouse be your close confidant. Communicate and discuss issues with your spouse. •Be Good Listener & Communicator You must be a good listener. When your spouse is talking, you must not be too busy to listen to him or her. Be ready to listen, discuss and make some contributions as well. Engage in an open communication. Open communication is the ability to discuss anything with your spouse. It includes sincere expression of thoughts, feelings, as well as careful listening. •Be Available You must be willing to make yourself available to your spouse, whenever he/she needs you. No matter how choked up you are in activities, you must create room for him/her, by making yourself available. Learn to spend quality time with him/her. For fun, go out or stroll out together, play games together, etc (Songs Of Solomon 2:4). •You Must be Caring You must be ready to express a genuine concern for your spouse’s well-being. If you do things you know hurt your spouse, you cannot have a healthy intimacy. You can develop a more caring heart and mind, by learning to think of your spouse’s feelings before yours. Always ask yourself before acting or speaking, “If I do this or say this, will I hurt my spouse?” LETS ALL LEARN
Posted on: Fri, 01 Nov 2013 10:33:37 +0000
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