HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP Its easy to ask for things, but will you get them? Not necessarily. Just like mastering a skill, youll need to know the tricks to the trade when it comes to getting what you want in your relationship. Granted, these tips may not work on everyone - after all, all men are different - but they sure cant hurt, right? Next time you need something from your honey, consider these dos and donts before you make your case. Do Ask Nicely Youre not going to get what you want from your beau by being mean and demanding. Next time you want your honey to make dinner, start it off with a compliment. Say something like, Baby, I loved that spaghetti you made that one time. Can you make it again? Its one of my favorite dishes! Buttering him up should work. The key here is to find his strengths, highlight them, then make your case. Dont Ask at All If you know hell see right through the compliments, try not asking at all. Dont come out and ask your boyfriend or husband what you want. Instead, mainly hint at your request and hope for the best. Say something like, Oh my gosh - I absolutely love that handbag. But ugh, I have no business buying myself something that expensive right now. Afraid this might not work? Consider a more aggressive approach by employing a little reverse psychology. When doing so, however, be very careful. Your plan could go terribly wrong. He might actually do what you ask. Do Give a Little Getting what you want can be as simple as giving what you want. Do you want him to give you a back rub? Then, give him one first. Plan ahead and do the types of things to your love that you would like. Hell be so grateful for your generosity, hell likely return the favor. Sometimes these are the types of things he forgets about. You doing sweet things for him - the kind that you want to benefit from, too - will give him ideas. Dont Ever Threaten Please, ladies, dont be that girl who gives her man ultimatums and threats. Dont say anything along the lines of, You better clean the house before I get home or else or If you dont stop doing what youre doing, Im gone. If you have to say the former, youll just anger the man. Youre trying to get what you want, right? Youre not trying to make him detest you. If you say the latter, perhaps you shouldnt be with this man at all - if what he does is so awful that youd be willing to leave or if he doesnt mean enough to you that you can let him go just like that, it cant be a good sign.
Posted on: Wed, 05 Mar 2014 06:50:26 +0000
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