Having gone through what one of my facebook friends posted,it pushed me to the awaiting junction that i have to let us know all these,i may not be 100% correct in these points am about to drop to us here. And some of us will go ahead upen their miserable mandibles to comment from the negative and illiterate chamber of their soured brains...i may not be perfect but,when it comes to relationship and courtship my words can change many things..But,after reading this and carefully apply it will help alot of people to escape from the traps and deceptions of troubled marriages thereby providing a good and healthy foundation to exist on. Because the Bible say IF THE FOUNDATIONS BE DESTROYED,WHAT CAN THE RITHEOUS DO? So,i strongly recommend that as you read this post,dont only read but also do a foundation check to find out if your marriage or relationship is realy what it should be if not then follow up my post as you read and put your relationship and marriage back on track...Now lets check these; It is very wrong to marry any person simply because he/she goes to church dont forget that Satan itself goes to church faithfully in attendance.. So dont accept marriage/relationship just because the person goes to church,they will tell you he/she is a good christian..remeber not everybody on suit is pastor.Becareful of religious manipulations or doctrinal witchcraft; There are people who go to tell the lady they want to marry that,GOD SAID YOU ARE MY WIFE.;,GOD HAVE ASKED ME TO MARRY YOU. SOME PEOPLE MARRY POSITION,wealth instead of the person involved,that is they accept the relationship or marriage because of where the person works,the position he occupies or the car he drives. While some reject others for marriage just because he has nothing to show at present as glory according to the interpretation of man not knowing that the tree cut down whose roots are still in the ground still has the hope and opportunity to spring forth again. Some people accept relationship/marriage out of sympathy or compensation. Some people reject relationship or marriage just because the person involve does not attend their church and that is very wrong. Dont ever marry anybody just because your parents asked you to,because you are the person to suffer it tomorrow not them. Some people enter into marriage or relationship just because their families and relations asked them to which is rubbish.. While some accept to go into marriage just because they are eager to. Please no hurry in life. Some people reject marriage/relationship on the basis that you are not from the same tribe,town,tradition or language.God created woman to be a help mate to man so the original and primary duty of woman to man is to support,help,contribute,co-ordinate and give more life to the vission of the man and not eaters of wealth..there are also some people who reject marriage and relationship proposals base on the experience or story of other people please it is very wrong because you are you and not the person. While some reject them because the person they had agreed to marry is not treating them the way their friends intending life partner treat their own partners so they bring comparism into their relationship forgetting the fact that we are peculiarly different from one another..please its wrong because we all express our love in different ways. Some will tell you they want to fast and pray about choosing their partners whereas before embarking on such spiritual exercise they would have registered or carried somebody in mind. Some in their own school of thoughts will tell you age is nothing but just a number,which can make a girl of 18years of age marry a man of 60years of age and there will be no problem. My dear that cannot be true lets use simple physical analogy to demonstarte it. An Analogue computer represents an age group or generation while the digital computer represents another different age group though they are both computers you will agree with me that they are not and can never be compactible if you force them together you will only end up causing damage to the two computers.. Also becareful when a man larvish you with gifts at the begining of your relationship with him it may be the last gift you will recieve when he lure you into marrying him. And there are people who enter into marriage or relationship because of beauty or handsomeness remeber all these can fade and can even be distorted by eventualities of life,though beauty is good and handsomness,but character is the altimate over all.. Some people enter into marriage because their spiritual leader or father which could be their pastor,told them that God have spoken to them that they can go ahead and marry,please dont accept any marrige just because your pastor said because you are the one to live and encounter that marriage so let God talk to you if truely He spoke to them.. Dont be decieved or be distracted by the word LOVE some will say that ones you are inlove with someone,you dont need to consider any other thing after all the bible sayslove covers multitude sin dont enter into relationship or marriage just because you want to belong to a class or define a class in public.. And last but,not the least,there are ladies who always present themselves very expensive to the public thereby chasing or scaring men from them,but when you go closer to them you will find out they have good character,also some jump into marriage when they are not prepared for it...please,i am very sorry to ha
Posted on: Wed, 11 Jun 2014 20:46:02 +0000
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