Hello Mama Zimbi, my name is Naana n I am 26yrs old, Ive been friend with my landladys son for 2yrs. He showed interest in me in the early stage but I ignored him cos I had no feelings for him n we were both dating at that time. We later became good friends, more like siblings, he lost his job n since I was at home too, we spent almost 3months together at home doing nothing. He continued to make his advances towards me then I fell for him, Im not dating but he is. After I fallen for him, he told me he truly loves me but he is committed somewhere. I decided to move on cos I cant be with someone I know is dating another but Mama anytime I try to move on, he will do all he can to prove his love to me, saying he want be a part of my life no matter what. I must confess he is a good man but he is with another. Mama just recently his elder sis called me to tell me that her mum has asked her to beg me not to move out from their house ( cos i told her Ill leave when my rent is due in december) n that she want her(the sis) to help her(the mum) marry me for her son, so she called to asked if I love her bro, but told her the bro is going out, she then told me the bro said its over btn them. After our conversation, I confronted him to tell me y he made me feel am dating another ladys guy when its not so, then he told me he has always tell me the truth, that he was going out with two ladies bf but he broke up with the one we all know in December, I became very mad at him n decided to move on but mama, the truth is I love him truly n the sis is also saying the family will do anything to ensure that we get married. I wish him for a husband but mama I dont want it to look as if he was forced to marry me. I told the sis the whole truth but she insist I fight for what I want, I asked him to choose btn us but he said he cant n that time will tell. I asked him if the other lady knows we r going out n he said no, so i asked y he told me about her since no lady comes to the house looking for him, he told me he cant lie to me. I know he loves me and he loves the other lady too, mama pls help me for am so confuse, I dont even know if he is just deceiving or not. The truth is Ive come to love him truly and from his actions, I can tell he loves me deeply too but mama he is still seeing the other lady. Pls what do I do?
Posted on: Thu, 17 Oct 2013 10:45:18 +0000
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