Hello Zane, First I have to say Im a big fan and read your posts daily. I really would love some advice from you and the other followers from your page. I been married 16 years to the man of my dreams ( so I thought), hes hard working, dependable,and great father to my kids. About 2 years ago he found a great job so we relocated to where the job was and about six months later he got fired. It killed me to watch him fall apart but I continue to pray for him and give him his space when he needed it, I even worked double shift ever other day to make sure our family was provided for. One night at work I received a message from a woman telling me her and my husband been having an affair for the past year and she was having his child. I was devastated... All I wanted was to hurt her, I blamed her for destroying my marriage and I became very vindictive. We did everything to make her life miserable, from calling her, to threatening to take baby. She had since had the baby and from the moment I first laid eyes on him I knew it was my husband child. I know I was wrong and know everything that she told me about him was the truth. Let truth be told this man has never been faithful to me, there has been several women that hes messed around with but she was different. We have no children together and hes his first child, but what shocks me is that he doesnt even try fight to be apart of his life and hes so great with my kids and grands. I know my marriage is over and Im moving on I just only want him to man up and take responsibility for his actions. MY RESPONSE: You cannot make him become a man. He has to do that on his own. At least you realize that it is time for you to move on and you have not children together. You are a seasoned, wise woman and you will be fine. Your kids and grandkids can still call him or even spend time with him but if he has been with you for 16 years, he is old enough to know better and do better. He is angry and ashamed because at a time when he should be preparing for retirement, he now has a two-decade responsibility. Good luck and I am glad you realize that you were wrong for trying to make that womans life a nightmare in the beginning. She should not have been sleeping with him but she did not make that child by herself either. I am sure she only came to you once he gave her his ass to kiss.
Posted on: Sat, 18 Jan 2014 17:40:14 +0000
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