Here is something very important and interesting thing about MARRIAGE !! To all the single girls n also married woman :) PLEASE READ AND SHARE.. (Y) here are some top most problems that young Indian women worry about getting married… 1. Our mothers’ constant reminders that ”Your mother-in-law won’t put up with your tantrums like I do” can make us begin to fear the idea of a mother-in-law! indian women worry 2. Everyone has always told us that our lives will drastically change after marriage - and we quite like our lives just as they are! 3. In India, marriage is not a matter to be settled between two people, but something that concerns two families and at least 2 dozen people! indian women worry 4. The traditional Indian man tends to be somewhat possessive (and often chauvinistic!), because of which most girls equate marriage with a loss of total independence. Going for vacations with your friends or doing a night out with them or planning a solo travel jig become insanely complicated issues. 5. Think of all the Bollywood movies and TV serials you’ve seen that show what a girl’s life is like after she is married… 6. We Indians are expected to follow a process: Get married, have babies, raise them, pay for their education, take care of their needs, save money for their weddings, get them married, and so on. But hey! What if we don’t want babies? It’s our choice, of course, but dealing with nosy relatives who are scandalized by our decision is not an easy task. 7. What if the marriage doesn’t work out? What if love is lost with time? These what-ifs are particularly worrisome for Indian girls because getting a divorce is still a big taboo. indian women worry 8. Responsibilities! Probably way more than we want to handle. Sigh! 9. Hundreds of expectations. We have to behave like ideal daughters-in-law and, all of a sudden, Maggi can’t be the only dinners we cook! indian women worry 10. The preparations can take a toll on us. And what’s with the huge expenses associated with getting married “in style”? 11. We are not yet ready to be called someone’s bhabhi, bahu, chachi or mami. I am just ME – no? indian women worry 12. Given our high-soaring ambitions and career aspirations, the prospect of marriage brings with it a good deal of apprehension because it involves many tough choices that can affect us professionally. After all, it’s not easy to find a man who will take a sabbatical for a few years to take care of babies while we work our way up the corporate ladder! 13. We have all heard the old cliché: “Betiyaan toh paraayi hoti hain.” It’s scary to think that we can’t any longer lean on our parents for support the way we always have. indian women worry 14. We have an identity that we don’t really want to change. Mrs Husband’s Surname isn’t as good as how our name sounds at present, and continuing to go by our “maiden name” after getting married is a difficult battle to fight even now. 15. We don’t want to get married because we are yet to accomplish everything on our “Things to do before tying the knot” bucket list! 16. Commitment issues! What if a greater love strikes our hearts later, when we can’t do anything about it? indian women worry 17. It’s difficult to suddenly become a part of a new family with new norms and habits, start living with a new set of people and sometimes being forced to make “a show of respect” and build relationships with people we may not like very much.
Posted on: Sat, 22 Nov 2014 06:24:33 +0000
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