Hey FB what should she do??? HEre is an Letter I ran across for a young lady needing some advice.... Dear ????: We Were In A Long-Distance Relationship, But He Moved In & Has No Job, Doesn’t Contribute, Yet, He Can Buy Kush! Dear ?????, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over 4 years now. We both are in our early 20s. After having a long distance relationship for 3 years we decided to move in together. In the beginning everything seemed to be okay between us, but once we moved in together things started to change. He started to act different we were arguing more and I just found out that he is using marijuana. We have had 3 children between us, and I have been the one doing everything. He had relocated from his city to move in with me and had not pitched in at all. He has not paid me a dime in rent, nor has he made the effort to really help out around the house. He doesn’t like to do things as a family and he gets upset when I tell him he needs to start helping out more. He won’t buy diapers, milk, clothes, toys or anything for the kids until somebody tells him he has to. Let alone he don’t spend a dime on me either, when we go out I pay for everything. He tells me that he loves me and his kids and to try to give him a chance since this is new to him. And my dumba** falls for that shit. He also has an anger problem. When I say something to him that he doesn’t want to hear he slams doors and throws things. I really think that marijuana is affecting him. He claims he is going to stop but hasn’t made the effort and isn’t attempting to make an effort to do so. His priorities are not in order and I am fed up with having to be the only one taking care of my family. He will buy weed but won’t do for his family. His family really wants us to try and work it out, but I feel like we are getting nowhere. I’m so sick of his selfish ways and I feel he needs to grow up. I am a very smart, independent young woman, but I am just so naive when it comes to stuff like this. I truly question if he really cares about his family or not because he is not showing it. We argue all the time about money and him smoking marijuana and not taking initiative to help out. He keeps telling me that I need to tell him what to do, and I don’t have a problem with that but I don’t want to have to tell you every time. I’m just fed up with this. I do love him and I want our family to work, but his actions are pushing me away. I just need to know what would be best. I’m tired of people being passive about this situation. I really need some tough love. – He Needs Some Ambition
Posted on: Tue, 11 Jun 2013 16:32:20 +0000
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