Hey Zane, I would like my name to be unknown..I been with my man for 8 years.we had our downfalls..but its something that really bothering me..we started off good in the beginning.but when he started school and got promoted on his job things changed.he use to come and see me, call me and text..but now its always an excuse.. When he say hes coming over he dont come and when i try to call him to see what happened he dont answer or if he do its always Im tired or i have duty..I told him that my feelings are nothing to play with..he says that hes not playing with my feelings that I dont understand that he works alot..zane i dont know what else to do i love this man..can you please give me some advices.. MY RESPONSE: After eight years, he should not be coming over in the first place. It sounds to me like he has grown apart from you, probably because of his achievements. Have you continued to grow in your own life while we was getting his education and being promoted on his job? I am not saying that is the primary reason for his change but I do know men AND women who prefer to be with people who have similar goals in life. You should be extremely busy yourself, is what I am saying, so that you have to coordinate times to see each other unless you are married and/or in the same residence. You should not get offended by him trying to better his life. He only gets one shot and if he is willing to make the sacrifices that making progress demands then you need to accept that. I know men who work damn near around the clock but they either have to do it to make their bills, or they are motivated by success. If you need a more attentive man with more free time, you may need to let him go and seek what you desire but you cannot make the man choose you over his livelihood. Good luck.
Posted on: Wed, 12 Nov 2014 17:00:01 +0000
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