Hey Zane, Im 30 yrs old and in a relationship with a 22 yr old. Im in the military. The plan was for him to go to college and get his degree in aviation maintenance after I got back from deployment. Well I have been home for a little over a year and since then he found a job at a fast food restaurant. He have yet to find a better job or start school. I have two vehicles and he has zero. Im trying my best to help him out until he gets on his feet but how much longer am I suppose to wait? Sometimes he forgets to logout of his Facebook page and when I go thru his inbox hes always trying to holler at other females, but then tells me he dont even know the females and its just FB. I found pictures of other girls in his phone. I want so much more out of life. We talked about buying a house. I pay the majority of the bills now. Every time I try to talk to him about how this isnt working, he always tell me Im not giving him time. I just feel like hes holding me back. I could have so much more if I wasnt carrying him. Im just confused at what should I do?? MY RESPONSE: Well, he has not gone through with the plan of getting his degree, and if he has enough time to flirt on Facebook then he has enough time to seek out a second job or a better one. You are right: you could have so much more and he is holding you back. The confusion is simply a reluctancy to face the facts that he is not the man you expected him to be. He is much younger than you and this is not the best use of your time or finances. You can buy a house by yourself at 30 but I would not let any dead weight lay up on my sofa if I were you. You cannot change him so you will either have to choose putting up with what he is giving you or being alone for a hot minute until a man with similar goals and ambition comes along. Good luck.
Posted on: Sun, 13 Jul 2014 12:32:18 +0000
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