Hey everybody, I figured out the secret to being happy. Its to care very deeply about a relatively small number of people and romantically love only one, the one who loves, cares about and truly knows you. Caring is safer than loving, because love is a deeper commitment and has expectations and exists in a constant state of needing to be returned and reaffirmed. Caring can go just one way though. Ideally, it shouldnt, but you can care about someone without them caring about you and it doesnt destroy you the way unrequited love does. Also, a lot of times if someone says they love you and then take it back that usually means they care about you, cause for the most part people dont say those words just to screw with your head. This sucks to hear at the time, but is good in the long run. So surround yourself with the people who care, because you dont need to prove anything to them, and when you love someone love them only as long as they love you. Then switch to caring. Or hating their guts, depending on how things go. Anyway, thats what Ive figured out so far. Ill keep you guys posted and let you know if I figure out the secret to eternal youth or endless wealth.
Posted on: Tue, 28 Jan 2014 02:33:26 +0000
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