Hi Zane , I have a situation. Ive been in a relationship for 2 years now to a man from another country, I met him at a family event when he first entered the USA. Long story short he didnt hesitate to inform me that he was attracted to me but also he had a wife back in his country. I proceeded with the new friendship , begin to help him in different areas, and before I knew it I found myself attracted to him as well. Ive nevered been involved with a married man so it was quite awkward for me and compromising. We began sleeping together and then we began doing EVERYTHING together. Were both feeling very guilty but were also very much in love. He plans to bring his wife here in 5 years , and I cant help but wonder what will happen to my heart. He wants to take me to his country to meet his family and discuss this with her because he cant see himself leaving me. ZANE , I have never in my life and Im 35 years old been in love like this. I have finally met my best friend. This is really difficult, Im torn in my feelings. Should I walk Away or should I stay and just enjoy the ride ? MY RESPONSE: Well, at least you are well aware of what you are doing. I cannot tell you what to do because I would never have slept with him in the first place, or allowed myself to develop feelings for him. Now you are in love, caught up and actually considering sharing a man for the remainder of your natural life. That is a decision only you can make. You chose to put yourself in that position so every choice moving forward is also yours. He truly has his cake and is eating it was well. His wife is probably in the other country being faithful to him while he is romancing you and blowing your back out. If you were her, how would you feel about that? Maybe you should begin there. Good luck with your decision.
Posted on: Sun, 27 Jul 2014 22:26:54 +0000
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