Hi Zane, Let me start off by saying I love your books and I really admire you after Ive seen what you do for people on facebook. It takes an amazing person to help others with their struggles and someday I want to do the same Ive always loved helpping others but this time I need help and Im glad I have you to get great advice from so please help me Im kind of losing it here. So Ive known my boyfriend since I was 16 and he was 14 he was my nephews friend. My sister pretty much adopted him because he was having problems with his family. I never looked at him in that way at first he was like another nephew to me until I turned 21 and he was 19. So we dated for a couple months and then he moved in with me because his living situations were messed up. So now weve been together almost 3 years now in June and last year i found out some crazy things. So we were arguing one day really bad and I told him I didnt want to be with him anymore and would u believe that while we were arguing his phone ring he looks at it and run out the house too take the call. Im curious so I listen by the window and I hear him say when u gon come see me so I come outside to ask who it is. He sees me and run. I kick him out then after about two weeks I talk to him and he tells me it was his ex who he was talking to she broke up with him when he was 17 it was his first love and he keep in contact with her and that she was just calling him to ask him why he didnt call her for her birthday. He said he wouldnt talk to her again if we got back together but somehow im still thinking about it and dreaming about it. I just want to know do you think thats my women intuition or just me being insecure? ?? Please help because hes my first and I wanted him to be my only but I wont stand for a womanizer. Feel free to let others weigh in I could use all the advice I can get. Signed Confused! !! MY RESPONSE: You need to let him go permanently. If he ran out the house to talk to her, and then ran away like a little boy, he is not mature enough to even make a commitment. Plus, he put speaking with her above working things out with you. We all make mistakes and it is okay not to end up with your first love as your last love. That rarely happens. Good luck.
Posted on: Sat, 01 Feb 2014 19:00:00 +0000
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