Hi Zane im 18 and a freshman in college. I met this boy in school in august and we have been talkin ever since. Its like we are perfect for each other. We always hang out together at least every day and talk on the phone every night. He tells me he loves me and cant wait for us to graduate and get married. He has all these big plans for us in the future and he has a good head on his shoulders and knows what he wants to do with his life. honestly i believe everything he tells me about how much he loves me. My problem is my dad doesnt want me to have a boyfriend in college. He tells me about how he made his biggest mistakes when he was in college and how i dont need to be messing around with a boy because hes not goin to do anything but play games and be with the next girl. I understand all that but i really feel that my boyfriend is different. He is NOTHING like that i swear. He is so respectful and treats me like a queen. I know people are probably gonna be like im just young and dont know anything but its so hard to explain how we really feel about each other. I told him all the things my dad said and how i dont need to mess with him because hes gonna just mess my life up and he gets mad because he thinks im going to break up with him and he keeps saying hes nothing like that and his love for me is true. Zane what should i do because I really do think we could be together forever am i a fool for thinking this? Should i slow things down ? What if we really are ment to be and spend the rest of our lives together. He tells me he cant see himself with anyone else and i really cant either. Please help MY RESPONSE: Plenty of people end up married to their high school or college sweethearts. Your father is simply trying to protect you but he should not have a blanket opinion over every single young man. If you feel he is sincere, give it a shot up and until something happens to make him seem like he is playing games. There are young men who do want to settle down and find one woman and keep it that way. I would continue doing what you are doing. Good luck with the relationship. P.S. I like the fact that he has similar goals as you and is attending the same school. Those are definite pluses.
Posted on: Sun, 04 Jan 2015 19:01:50 +0000
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