Hi admin,please hide my identity for personal insecurities... Ndingu bhuti of 23 years in a complecated relationship with a lady of 27 years.ndithandane nalosisi just after ndohlukene nomama wabantwana bam of two . Ndiye ndafumanisa ukuba loMadam ndithandana naye unomtana omnye but still seeing his ex regularly(utata womntana) and abam abantwana bahlala kumama wabo nguye obathumelela imali mna andinanto endidibanisa nomama wabo and everytime ndifuna ukubabona umama wabo uyabazisa kum ekhona naye to prove inyaniso ngam. We spoke about it she then told me that they only seeing each other for babys sake. I dicided that xa efuna ukusa umntana kuyise I wont mind but I need to know xa esiya kulo ex wakhe,we had an agreement. Lately shes something I never thought cause every now and then we have arguements she tels me that andimthandi umtana wakhe as for mine.this freaks me out a lot. Yonke lonto yenza ukuba izinto zibe tense between us including children as we stay in my plays altogether... Im now going through tough situation precisely because we dont have future plans of commitments to upper level as wife and husband. I am recently met another lady in which we click both quite well to plan farther for our future but she knows about my situation. My problem is this ndingenza njani ukuze ndibe kulendawo endifisa ukuthi yile iyiyo nendiyifunayo ebomini bam? I fear to hurt or disappoint lo ndidibane naye kuqala inspite the fact that I personally dont see any future between us but yes I do love her dearly. Please help. Confused,Umtata EC.
Posted on: Wed, 06 Nov 2013 10:37:47 +0000
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