How can you find the right man when all you do first is to dig into their past. Women some of you are the architect of your own problem, after going through heartbreak and you meet a new guy, the first thing you do during conversation is to take his phone,go through his messages and inbox on Fbk, because negativity is what you want to see, you ignore all the messages with guys name and concentrate on that with female names, you start reading just to find out what he has been doing in the past, when you see messages like I love you, you wont even bother to read the next comment, you conclude that hes cheating or hes a cheat without giving recourse to the genesis of the conversation, you start blaming men saying oh all men are the same Ive always said it, or I cant date a guy who is a cheat just shut that thought and let me educate you, remember that those conversation are part of his past why have you chosen to dig into them and then judge him with it,instead of concentrating on the future and getting to knw him better. Remember you both are just getting to know each other and have nven made commitment to date eachother, the next thing you do is You go home feeling bittered blaming yourself for not being able to find the right man when in actual fact you deliberately chose to dig into his past just to justify your singleness. Dont judge people with their past,when you meet someone new,concentrate on who they are now and the future. Digging into peoples past and judging them with it is an unwise thing to dø, the only reason why you should know their past is so that you can forgive them and move on, it shouldnt be for you to know if theyve been cheating or not, grow the relationship first before digging into their past which you should ordinarily not do unless they choose to tell you.
Posted on: Thu, 17 Oct 2013 21:42:03 +0000
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