How to Decide If You Should Save Your Relationship Dear Campuser. “We need to talk” is the scariest four-word phrase you can hear from your lover. When your relationship seems to be on a wrong path, and you spend more time arguing with your partner than making out, it is definitely time for you to have the “talk”. Both of you need to decide if the relationship is worth saving or should you end it.It is never easy to end a relationship. Especially if you were together for several years, a lot of thinking and talking must be done. If both of you decide to call it off, start moving on. If you guys decide to give it another try, make sureit’s for the right reasons. There are factors to consider before you end a relationship. But remember, there is a strongchance that your logical thinking be turned off while thinking over the time you’ve spent together, all the effort both of you exerted in the relationship, and all the sacrifices. You can get really confused between what your brain says is right and what your heart feels. There will be the urge to just turn a blind eye and forget things. But if the relationship is no longer healthy, both of you will soon grow tired. And worse,you might separate as mortal enemies rather than friends. Before deciding, analyze the problem. What has caused the problem? Why could you not compromise? Do you love your partner enough to give way to what he/she wants? When relationships break up, usually itis because the couple could no longer compromise. Compromising is vital. Remember, a relationship is a two way street. It should not be just about you or your partner. It is a mutual undertaking that both of you committed in.Never make decisions when you’re mad. It usually leads to regretful decisions. Have the talk once you guys are calm. Let your partner explain his/her side and vice-versa. Try to understand each others opinions sincerely and accept their points. But if you still feel strongly about your judgment and your partner says otherwise, you have to face the music. End the relationship.Asking family and friends for advice may not be the most recommendable thing to do, yet some still do it anyway. At the end of the day, you still have the decision. You know theperson and the situation better than your family and friends. You are the one who will be directly affected. You could take their advice but make sure it is what you really want to do.Bottom line, you should save the relationship that is worth fighting for. If you and your partner feel it is worth another try, go ahead. If you think it could still be worked out but your partner isn’t in it anymore, let go. If you want out but your partner wants to stay, have the talk and see if you could still compromise. Moving on from abreak up can be very painful. But living in a lie is more .Do you agree with me drop your comment and share .Please dont be stingy to share
Posted on: Fri, 11 Jul 2014 06:35:38 +0000
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