How to be happy everyday Ask 100 different persons about true happiness and you will get 100 different answers. Some will tell you that real happiness is in being rich and popular, others will tell you that happiness has nothing to do with money or fame while a third group will tell you that real happiness is in finding a loving relationship. So Which answer is correct? Actually all of the answers are correct because what makes me happy is very different from what makes you happy. The biggest mistake people make when they try to seek happiness is that they follow generic advice that will never work except for a few of them because each one of us has got his own happiness keys. If you want to be happy then you must find customized happiness tips that matches your own needs and this is what this article is all about. How to be happy? If you want to be happy everyday then do the following: Find out your happiness keys: What are the things that you like doing the most? or when was the last time you felt really happy? answering these questions will help you find the keys to your own happiness Whats holding you back?: Find out the things that are holding you back from seeking your happiness keys. Are you so busy working? Do you procrastinate? are you not giving your pursuit of happiness a priority? After you find whats holding you back make some changes to your life so that you make sure that you are doing enough effort to get closer to your happiness keys Do you do something that you hate? : It might not be possible to avoid all things that we dislike but what about the things that we really hate? Are you in an abusive relationship that is making your miserable? Are you unable to tolerate your stressful job? You will never be happy before you reduce the frequency of doing the things that you hate in your life Instant happiness is a myth: In my book, The ultimate guide to getting over depression i said that you will never be happy before you peruse your unmet needs and because this is something that cant happen overnight instant happiness is a big myth. Seeking happiness is a journey that will take time Finding happiness within: Some people claim that happiness can be found through meditation or Yoga. While these practices can help in reducing stress and in improving your mood still true happiness would never be found before you get a hold of your happiness keys You have to fight for happiness I know that many books and articles have told you that you can be happy on the spot once you decide to do so but if you had a chance to meet the authors of those articles and books then you will discover that they are unhappy. In order to be happy you have to fight for it. Improving your life, getting rid of your problems and changing the things you dislike about your life are all actions that require a lot of determination and hard work. When you manage to get all of these tasks compelled you will find yourself a much happier person and most of your bad moods will disappear.
Posted on: Mon, 25 Aug 2014 16:27:39 +0000
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