I always believed life was fair. Always believed when God took something away from you, you shouldn’t be upset, but rather thankful, as He shall always give you something better. Which some people called Karma. The opposite also applied as what goes around always comes around. During my whole life I kept silent and quiet about people using me, insulting me and hurting me. It seemed to my closest that I was too weak to act or fight back; it seemed to them that I was too passive sometimes, that I gave up on my rights. But I ALWAYS ended up getting what I wanted, most of the time, even better, only because God interfered. I always believed that if I fought back, there would always be misunderstandings and new arguments would be created, we would never compromise as people are different and the way I look at things might be from a completely different perspective; and if I don’t tolerate and put myself in the other’s shoes, we might end up with a bigger misunderstanding and disrespect of both parties… so I usually stay quiet… watching what God is planning for me, because even if my heart was on fire while watching, God would never allow anything to hurt me; because I didn’t do anything, I stayed still, watching. While, on the other side, the other person continued with whatever plots, exposing himself and his reality bit by bit… That doesn’t mean you should stay passive, cuz you should ALWAYS know your limits, what you want and what you are fighting to get; as, if you do what others think you should do, you would end up hurting yourself to please them and at the end of the day, you would never be able to please everyone, including confusing or sometimes even destroying your own self. So you should rather try to please yourself, as you will be the ONLY person enduring the consequences of your actions whether you chose them or made someone else pick them for you. At the end of the day no one can force you to do something you don’t want to do and if you really want something you will always find a way to get it… But I got to realize that each step of the way is more complicated than the previous one. The pressure is higher and sometimes seems unbearable… When is it ok to stop everything and say out loud “THAT’S ENOUGH”? When is it ok to really take a step back and not accept enduring it anymore? When is it ok to scream and stop people from controlling your life? When is it ok to finally speak up?
Posted on: Tue, 11 Mar 2014 07:16:02 +0000
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