I am a stud. And I will tell you exactly why. Something I recommend other people trying as well. I made two lists: a list of insecurities and a list of things I like about myself. Simple right? A lot of people have probably done this. But its more than just weighing the good and the bad. Not only was the positive list longer, but it was all based on who I am as a person, while the insecurities were mainly focused on my physical appearance. I then challenged my belief on each insecurity, and I realized I dislike certain aspects for silly reasons. Mostly around thoughts that negative people pushed on me throughout growing up. And when I really asked myself questions, and really thought about it, I had nothing to be insecure about. In fact, that list is now blank, and the list of things I like about myself is much longer. Right now, I cant think of a single thing Im insecure about. I just keep thinking of more and more positive traits. Its funny to think that back in high school I felt like I belonged at the bottom of the barrel, and now Ive brought myself to the top. I dont mean to sound cocky, but I worked hard on always improving myself, and I MADE myself a stud.
Posted on: Tue, 03 Dec 2013 05:40:40 +0000