I am going to rant about a situation I see too often and it concerns me as a public figure and Im going to use my voice and speak out. Call it politics call it whatever you want but I love children of all walks of life so Im going to share this with you I would like to start the week off by thanking all the great children out there That love and embrace their parents no matter what situation they are in it could be from a divorce a death a broken home, a child that is old enough and knows who their real parents are. When I say parents it just doesnt necessarily have to be biological however in this case it is. I entertain 60,000 kids about every weekend and I consider them one of mine. Every single child is different we all come from different backgrounds broken homes foster homes adoptions paternal big brothers big sisters we are all the same we all have had a father or mother. Even if we have never met him or her he or her may never of known you maybe he or her has been in your life your whole entire life maybe part time but that father or mother is your real biological parent. My message and take away here is never forget who your real parent is no matter what the other parent is telling you especially if its bad things about the other parent, your mom or dad. A parent that feeds their child negative things about the opposite parent is the parent that should be disowned. Sometimes a child is fed very bad things about another parent and they believe it. They are brainwashed day and day out. Its unfortunate that children come from broken homes that dont know the other parent, or that has been fed a line of crap about the other biological parent. What I am trying to say is I am encouraging all you kids out there to reach out to the other parent that you might not see all the time or talk to or that you are told that is a bad person because its probably 90% not true. The very alarming and hurtful situation here is the parent that dont have the child 24 seven is the victim. Another reason why I am saying this is because I have seen it for almost 30 years. Especially in todays social media things can get very hurtful wrongdoing and the tone of a comment and or email could be very hurtful. I understand and I want to reach out and crush all of this mental abuse for children why? Because I am a product of a broken home and I understand when a parent keeps you from another parent. I also understand in some cases its a legal and better thing to do due to uncontrollable circumstances. The real truth is 90% of the time its because the other parent has so much hate for the other parent and they use the child as a tool. I know there are a lot of parents out there that can relate to this it needs to stop we need to stop using our children as a device and a tool for the feelings and emotions of hatred we have for one another either going through divorce or any type of circumstance. So a real good parent would encourage their children to reach out to the other no matter what they are going through, To call them to write them to want to be with them. Just because you dont like them doesnt mean you should paint a picture for the child to hate them and think that their a bad person. Or to make your new partner the role model of their new father or mother. That is a sickness they are not their mother or father. The step mother or stepfather should be ashamed to even try to cover that role and think that youll ever be their father or mother unless circumstances are different however when the other parent is alive and trying to have a relationship with that child a good person will encourage that child and make the biological parent in their life the prominent figure. These are just my feelings and opinions and they are real I lived it I see it almost every weekend and it is so hurtful. To me the Parent that does not encourage their child to have a relationship with the other biological parent that is not living with you is bad, all it does is reflects on really who you are as a person. Believe me as they get older their going to find out what kind of person you are. I mean really heres a good one for all of you to think about and see if it hits home. A child posts on their Facebook Happy Fathers Day its so awesome that I have a stepdad that is the best in the world though I should just call him dad anyway. Until theyre 18 and theyre living under your roof a strong parent with values and morals would control the childs social media. It has got out of hand social media is being used for bullying and its being used for children to commit suicide. So think about it parents if youre letting your child post stuff like that what is the child really doing on the other side with other children. Just think that child is a reflection of you. Those words sting they hurt there not right and a damn good parent would not let them post that. Especially when the other parent has done nothing but reached out and is a damn good father or mother Pays child support every month and gets nothing back. What has happened to our parenting nowadays..... Oh and I just want to add this..... I truly think the government needs to stay out of our own house and let us parents be parents!
Posted on: Mon, 16 Jun 2014 13:39:43 +0000
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