I am not a English or grammar major i dont claim or pretend to be highly educated Im just me Id rather you hate me for who I am than love me for who Im not. this is just some things that have been on my mind. The toughest thing about being young and committed is growing together. When me and my wife first got together we were kids fresh out of high school. I had no clue on what it was to be a man my father was called home when I was about 10 so I didnt get to receive wisdom from him on what and what not to do as a man. My mother did her best but cant no women raise a boy to be a man that goes for the ones who dress like ones too under your pants you aint got what he got unlessen you strap it on and still its nothing but a accessorie no different than a belt. I had to teach myself how to be a faithful amongst other things. Any man who cheat on a woman who loves him supports him who is there for him is a fool at the end of the day what the other woman has to offer is the same thing she has to offer if your tired of the same old same old know that you are not the total package either there is always someone smarter than you taller than you richer than you more muscular than you but she chose to love and forsake all others for your nasty habit same underwear wearing video game playing stank breath having self she looked passed it all to see the good in your heart. But a lot of us think the grass is greener on the other side not knowing that with time love patients and Gods word your grass can be just as green if not greener marriage and God has done wonders for me and my wifes relationship. We realize that half if not all the things we fought about we dont have to if we take it to God. I say all that to say this it is hard being young and in a relationship that period between the ages of 18-25 where you have growing pains where you mature both of you experience those things together where you have to find yourself and dont want to be bothered and want to explore. Im telling you its nothing out here. You have a few good women and only handful of good men. If you are fortunate enough to have a good one keep them if he or she is fat, ugly, lazy you love your ugly spouse appreciate who God has sent pray for God to work on them. If she or he posting half naked pictures on social media be careful that may not be who God sent you ladies have some respect for yourself and your future husband your worth more than a couple like. Any man can click a button but can he be a provider can he be a father can he lead your family closer to Christ if not examine what does he really bring to you besides a moment of pleasure. And if the only time he comes around is when its dark out and is up and out before the kids awake its a problem. Why is it that you can share your bed but he cant share his phone his money his car his time..... you guys are worth more Im sick of seeing you guys suffering wake up God gave us a blue print on relationships very few of us have built our relationship successfully without it i was able to later in life have God even out my uneven foundation. get in Gods word find out what a man should be and look for that and dont except anything less because its what you deserve. Read Gods Word so you can learn to live and not have to live and learn
Posted on: Mon, 10 Nov 2014 04:33:11 +0000
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