I am tired of living in a small apartment complex. There is no privacy whatsoever. I love the people around me and know that most have the best intentions for me. The part that is unfair to me is when I let someone know that I am busy I do not think I need to explain to that person why and they should know to leave me alone until the time Ive said I will not be busy. My daughter is sick right now and I have been up with her all night. I am also taking care of a lot of very important paperwork that is a tedious task that must be completed within a certain amount of days. It is alone time. When you call and I text you telling you I am busy. Please respect that. Dont try to be a busy body and snoop around to find out if there is any gossip that needs to be discussed with the other neighbors. I pay my rent and have no car but can utilize 2 parking spaces if need be. If I want anyone to know the matters that are taking place in my life I will tell you. Please dont dig around assuming something is something when it is nothing. I dont want to explain myself to anyone who it doesnt concern unless I really need someone to talk to. I am not totally antisocial but have wanted privacy lately. I have to confess that Ive opened my mouth to the wrong people concerning situations but at the same time. Look at the way I treat you. If you were to tell me that you will be busy for a certain period of time. I will not waist my time snooping around to find out what it is you are doing. If I am bored that would be very rude of me to still show up at your place anyways. Then to put conditions on my friendships with you and others when you havent the slightest clue on whats really going on or you dont like the way I am handling a matter........Believe me I am doing my best. I am moving forward but the matters pertaining to me and my family are only mine and my families business unless I want to involve you. I had a conversation with someone the other day and Ive been thinking about what they said to me. It was ironic that theyre assumption of my intentions in something that went on last weekend was what I told someone else who is close to that person just to make up a quick excuse or explain why I couldnt have anyone over. It was really a lie. Though Ive used the same excuse in the past it was the fastest way of explaining that they needed to leave my apartment. I really felt bad about it but I had made plans prior to that person unexpectedly showing up at my door. Privacy has been an issue with me lately and I feel its been totally violated. If I say not to come up to my apartment then please be courteous and dont. That way you will not need to assume anything about me or gossip with others about parts of my personal life that isnt your business. Also please dont assume that I do not have a lot of important things to do because I am not working. I stay busy and in order to go places it is triple the work and time because I am walking with a four year old. There are areas in my life that I am allowed to keep to muself, even if I live in am apartment complex. I am not angry but a little hurt over the part where the person spoke for them self and others and they have no permission from me to know what is going on. I made it clear that I didnt need anyone over and they went ahead and came over. Where is the privacy boundaries here?
Posted on: Tue, 27 Jan 2015 16:00:22 +0000
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