I circle everything many times before I find relief. So my cycle tends to look more cyclonic, with me going from acceptance to denial several times, with each step taking longer as I get farther from the trigger. Eventually, we are released from the cycle when we have fully accepted the reality of our loss and replace it with something new, which that new thing can even be a time of regular memorial.
Posted on: Mon, 14 Jul 2014 18:11:02 +0000