I dont believe there are many free thinkers and if there are, people are very suspicious of them. it is about the pursuit of perfection they say, it is not the falling that counts, its the getting up- set your goals high-be the change you want to see in the world (my favourite) every day in every way i get better and better and better(motivational speakers like this one)- do it just to show them that you can(prize for the most pathetic one) This is pressure folks. As workshops for self improvement, life coaches, motivational speakers and even some retreats- suicides rise daily and the victims are getting younger. Why is this? It took me years to RETURN TO SENDER. I realized its about working with what you have, which is CHARACTER. Personality is what you develope according to your life circumstances. Federer had a short temper as a young player until he was told his attitude would cost him his career Douglas Adams became depressed when his professional life took a dive. He floundered from odd job to odd job until he went home for Christmas and ended up living with his mother for a year. Therapy proved a fruitless venture, but he managed to smooth his mind out somewhat by the time he started with The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy. Woody Allens had/has dark moods....but his finest films served as a productive outlet for his depression. Wringing laughter out of the pain worked as a viable supplement to therapy. There are many examples but can you see where im going with this. If someone is depressed dont tell them HOW to think. Give them a number of someone who is worse off and would welcome the company. If someone is angry you do not waffle on about how to be the change...... You take them to a musical event or a sports match. If you cant meditate because your mind wonders it does not mean you are bad, un-awake, unconscious or unwilling- it could very well mean that going from to door collecting donations for the poor is best suited to your character. Think for your selves. Contrary to what you think, man is slowing down when it comes to being UNIQUE
Posted on: Sun, 10 Aug 2014 06:04:00 +0000
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