I found this quote from Jonathan Acuff about comparison vs. inspiration to be profoundly insightful: When I am inspired by others, I want to clap for them. I am able, with an honest heart to cheer their accomplishments. When I get stuck comparing myself to others, I want to criticize them. I am not happy for their accomplishments, I am jealous of them. I misinterpret their success as a reflection on me. (If you’re looking for a definition of “narcissism,” just use that last sentence.) Want to escape the comparison trap? It’s easy. Celebrate others. Clap loud. Cheer for somebody else when you get the chance. (And you always have the chance.) Criticizing people is easier than celebrating them. But one leads to jealousy and one leads to joy. I hope you find people who inspire you. The world is full of them, but when you do, don’t let your inspiration mutate into comparison. Inspiration is a gift. Comparison is a curse. And each day we get to choose which we’ll embrace. (Acuff)
Posted on: Wed, 07 Jan 2015 17:12:08 +0000
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