I have a rant that I have to let go of... my words are genuine and i need to say this... Please forgive me for allowing my self to be sucked into this drama... it is what it is... It is so discouraging knowing all I did to help out a a friend and his son, When they had their backs against the wall... when I had so little myself... to hear the trash that is spewing from them now. Trashy is what trashy does.. Understanding now why NO ONE else would step up to help them out. I know who I am... and while trying desperately to not be bated into their drama... I feel I have been taken advantage of. I guess I would rather offer help and be treated badly, ...than not offer, ...and watch as people fall down. Evil words come from an evil heart. And just because their words appear on face book...doesnt change or cover over who they are... how they got to be where they are with Childrens Protection Agency, The courts, or anything else i witnessed during their short time in my home. A newly purchased FXR Harley MOTORCYCLE for the dad, instead of a home for his son... and the MOM: Court hearings on Pills and Doctor shopping, instead of a relationship with your son. ...restraining orders,...investigations, etc... It is Not my battle and I was so easily drawn into it! I noticed they made no mention of the shoes (my Nike Shocks) the boots (my new Milwalkees) the youth DOT helmet, my favorite leather riding jacket, all that I gave to the boy so he could be safe while riding with his dad. ...And also so he could go to school with nice shoes ..not worn out and holey ones. There was no mention of the toys and clothes given to them by my friends. There was no mention of food I brought them while they were living Hotel to Hotel, before giving them a home under my roof. (Food I had to get from a friend and her church food pantry, because I dont work enough to buy food.) I didnt realize they were collecting food stamps and working full time. when I think of... The lunches I packed, or the time I spent with the boys teachers to make his schooling more than his daily lies about homework and ZEROs where grades should be.... It seems I was the first to challenge him on his lies and the first to care about what was happening in school or what was in his backpack ... including the items he had stolen from me. So if he hates me.. i guess he wasnt used to an active parent/friend. The apple does not fall from the tree. They moved out of my home while I was gone.. (and, BTW..things left behind are not stolen...) additionally they left owing me money and kept keys to my home (so another fifty bucks for new locks. ) No good deed goes unpunished. I am saddened by all of this. and shocked they would air their family dirty laundry in a public forum where their community can see, other family can see, THEIR SON can see, and his friends can see. The sons anger issues do not belong to me (BTW the son is blocked from my page..); His anger and aggression was why I stopped his hours of X-BOX sniper violence on my living room TV...the violence was upsetting even to me. All of this has gone on long before I tried to help them out. They were friends of mine for 6 years, and now I have been just another sap taken in by their charm. I try not to say anything out here when I have nothing nice to say... but all things having balance... this needed to be said. I needed to clear the air. Thank you for your time, please forgive my negativity. Now ..on with living MY happy life!
Posted on: Wed, 26 Mar 2014 14:45:48 +0000
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