I have been reading the posts and it stirred up some raw emotions with myself. I find myself in a lot of these women shoes. I am from Albany, Ga and I really want to use names with my husband, myself and the mistress, but I am embarrassed by it all. I am a wife and my husband is cheating on me. He has been messing with this woman for over 11 years and they have had 2 children together. I have left and because I believe in the sanctity of marriage, I want to make my marriage work. I have spoken with the woman on occasions and she acts as though she is sorry and then the next thing I know, they are sneaking around again. He once told me that she threatens him and uses those kids against him and I did not believe him until the three of us came face to face and he told her he was going to be with me and I was his wife. Her reply was, Ill tell your children you are dead. That is sick within itself because she knew she was having kids with a married man and even if he told her he was divorcing me, it does not take but a few months to get divorced. I am so tired of the both of him. He is wrong! I get that, however, she is just as wrong. Some say that I should divorce him, however I am of the faith and God declares, in Malachi 2:16, I hate divorce! And why does He hate divorce? One reason is that marriage is meant to be a special covenant between a man, a woman, and their God. This has me conflicted on what I should do. I have been praying for years, but it seems to only get worse. I know being married and being a Christian is not supposed to hurt this much. Why is it that these women do not take into account that they are doing to another woman what they would not want done to her. Then I can remember a conversation with her where she said she has never been cheated on as much as she has been with him. If that wasnt the craziest mess because she is cheating with him on me. Go figure. They had stopped messing around, but once again a couple of weeks ago I find out they back at it. I know that she cant think I am not in the picture anymore, because the tag on the truck clearly says September and he was born in April. I have BEGGED him to leave me and be with her and those kids. He wont. He knows the scripture and uses it to his advantage as well. He says in Matthew 19:3-9. When the Pharisees ask, Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason at all? FOR THIS REASON A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER AND BE JOINED TO HIS WIFE, AND THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate. My thing is if he knows this and keeps going against the word, that really scares me of the hold Satan has on him. He knows the word and chooses to go against it. I can understand wanting a relationship with his kids, but no one is thinking of the childrens mental health. They have involved these children in some unhealthy mess and they are who I really find myself praying for because of the example they have being set before them. That its okay to cheat on your wife and its okay to lay with a married man. They might not know it now, but one day, those kids are going to hear that and imagine how that will make them feel. Just wanted to vent. I was not surprised to see that I am not the only one in similar situations as the people on the page. The devil is trying to destroy whatever God has put forth and marriage is not out of the equation.
Posted on: Mon, 29 Sep 2014 20:57:54 +0000
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