I have been thinking a lot about my Aunt Romina this month as September was the month of her birthday. I miss her so much and wish that she were still around. I want to take this moment to set the record straight… First of all, my mother Sparvin and my Aunt Linda are the ONLY TWO AND TRUE SISTERS that my Aunt Romina had. They are her REAL SIBLINGS, always have been and always will be, along with my Uncle Zaia. Second of all, I have never seen siblings so close! During the time of my Aunt Romina’s sickness, my mother was in San Jose several months out of the year for 5 years straight, taking care of her, cooking, cleaning and doing laundry for her AND HER FAMILY! The same goes for my Aunt Linda. They did all this neither for applause nor recognition, but because it was THEIR sister and that is what sisters do—REAL SISTERS that is. For those that have “stepped up” and are “aunts since day one” now to her children, I ask, “Where in the HELL were they before that they felt the need to step up now?” We do not hold grudges and we do not hate. Blood is blood and always will be. Family is family and always will be. We have never turned our backs and the fact that others have turned their backs on us when all we have done is be there for them 110% is not only disheartening but a sign of guilt on their part. How easily you forget the numerous phone calls, voice messages and text messages sent to my mother begging and pleading that she is the ONLY ONE that Romina wants, the ONLY ONE that can make things better, the ONLY ONE that is AN ANGEL to their family and that they need her to be there with them. How easily they forget the text messages thanking her for all that she has done and how much they love her for everything that she did and couldn’t imagine life without her care and help. How easily they forget that with one phone call, my mother would drop everything, her own husband and children behind to care for them without the slightest hesitation. On a side note, I feel bad for them, as I cannot imagine losing a parent at such a young age. On top of that, the situation and individual they are left behind with would cause anyone to lose their mind and forget the TRUTH. Being left with an individual who is trying to play the “good parent” when he himself is a coward, liar, and a horrible example of what a husband and man should be is not a good role model to have in anyone’s life. If they would like us to prove the TRUTH, we would be more than happy to do so with tangible evidence. If not, then I suggest they keep their mouths shut and not add insult to injury that they have already caused my mother, aunt and uncle. Do not spread lies, as anyone who is worth something knows the truth! This is a warning to anyone who decides to further negligently hurt my family, more importantly my mother, ever again! You will have to deal with me, which TRUST ME is not something you want to be up against. IF you want to live your lives without our support, love and care, then live your lives, but DO NOT go around spreading untruthful information and hitting below the belt. It does nothing except prove the guilt that you have aching in your hearts and that the only gene that has passed down to you from your remaining “parent” is the asshole gene. Please consider this the friendliest communication you will receive from me. Any further blatant lies that are spread or disrespect shown will only cause great regret and embarrassment on your part! Also, for others, please spread this message so it can be known! Thank you!
Posted on: Wed, 17 Sep 2014 23:56:14 +0000
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