I have personally seen women specifically chose weak men because they want to be able to control them....... or so they think. I understand that circumstances where we had no control could be a contributing factor(cases of rape, molestation or abuse, and these are things that we have to heal from), but also because we deal with a twisted understanding of manhood, the promotion of a strong black woman, and we are dabbling in role play where women foolishly think we can step into the role of a man, also causes us to make those types of choices. However, if we set out to chose a weak man,(and who is raising these weak men?)how can we be upset with his weakness? The reality is, we irritate our nature when we chose a weak man, because we dont REALLY want a man that we can control, we will call him a punk and lose respect for him, but again we are lashing out at him because we have gone against OURSELVES. At the core of a woman, no matter how hard she tries to be, she does not want a man that she can play puppet master to, and when you begin to pull the strings to make him move how you want him to move, it is a conflict of nature and that is the REAL reason you get upset. We have to learn how to let nature take its course, instead of us trying to redirect/force/accept that which is not natural to us. Submission is a form of call and response. His nature calls for submission, our nature responds by submitting to him.
Posted on: Fri, 04 Jul 2014 13:56:12 +0000
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