I have someone I care for a lot. This someone has asked not to have anything about her posted on facebook. I have always done or tried to follow her wishes, but if I do then the Christans out there cant share the power of prayer, and help in solving issues I sometimes cant see through. So, now I wish to explain a few of the issues I cant get a handle on. This person has had a severe stroke near the end of Sept. it effected this persons right side. Not able to use arm hand or leg. Is able to use some straighth to stand but should have stand-by assistance. Must use a wheelchair at all times. Can not do daily activities to keep the enviroment healthy. As a register nurse, I do my best to listen to everyones wishes and desire. Always try to carrie out as much as possible those desires. Yet, when reality expresses that your wishes are not possible nor safe somehow someone needs to help that person face the facts and make a good choice. My problem is I cant get my head or heart to accept that the desire of this person is to hold on to all control of a life that has become very limited. The enviroment is so dangerous yet their issue to no nursing home due to having to sign over all assets. (Which is not all that much) is not acceptible. This person has stated over and over to me that No one or nothing will every have control over me. With this choice I am at a loss. I feel this is another message of Leave me alone, I will do what has to be done, it will work itself out, I will not go anywhere. Why would anyone choice to be in constant danger and fustration. Thanks for letting me vent. Just say a prayer for me to stay out of this persons way and care from a distance. I keep thinking I should let go, so the Lord and use this person or teach this person. I just pray it is the Lord and nothing els
Posted on: Mon, 03 Nov 2014 01:42:54 +0000
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