I just learned how to do this after not being able to say no. That personality trait put me in the hospital. It is all about teaching people just how far they can push you and learning that the more you do for people doesnt make them like you anymore. In fact I realized it just made most think you are easy to manipulate. Several people who I thought were really good friends only were friends because of what I would and could do for them. Dont get me wrong I enjoy helping people it is what I live to do, but when you want to help many and the ones who are your friends think due to being a friend they are entitled before others and they then say, but am your friend and wont help you help others you realize exactly how important you are to those friends. Now this isnt a negative post, I was just told recently I am becoming a negative person due to my new found understanding of myself and just how people will use you, I just want to be around longer for those who will appreciate me. I never expect anything in return, but when you quit doin for the entitled thinkers and they bash you after you do, do for them, well you too will have a new found understanding of human nature and learn to protect yourself.
Posted on: Mon, 10 Nov 2014 21:24:49 +0000
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