I keep seeing posts from women saying things like I hate being single, why cant I find a decent man, not that much to ask for is it, or Im lonely, someone pop up. This is NOT the way to attract men, if youre begging it its an instant turn off. Its not that hard... DOs - be yourself, cliche, but true, we look for genuineness in a person. - if possible, make him laugh. - its good to be confident but dont stress about it, everyone says you need to be confident, but a little nervous is good too, shows if youre nervous that youre wanting to make a good impression, meaning you must like us... - be independent, nothing attracts a man more than an independent woman. DONTs - dont try too hard, we like the chase. - if youve got trust issues because of previous relationships, dont mention that straight away, I get that people like to be upfront and honest, but Im telling you, its off putting. We just think this is going to be hassle from the word go. Harsh but true. - dont talk about your ex, or the ex before that ex, or your ex ex ex (we NEVER want to know, promise). - never ask the question have you ever cheated on anyone?, 1 - its completely irrelevant to anything thats happening right now, its in the past, leave it there. 2 - it opens a shit storm of deep questions, we dont want deep on first dates, we we both instantly start doubting each other, even though we say it hasnt bothered us, we cant help it. - theres a very thin line between honesty, and us thinking shes a nutcase, its nice to be honest dont get me wrong, but be honest about lighthearted things, dont spill your heart out about all the shit things that have happened in your life, that is something that comes gradually as you enter a relationship with someone, not when youve just met them. - theres a difference between being independent and being defensive, from experience, a lot of women overplay the card, and become insulting with it HAH, you think I need you to pay for the food, bless you, dont do that! You know how a lot of women hate being called love, or darling, we dont like being patronised either. And just remember its not an audition, youre not selling yourself, youre just getting to know someone. Before someone jumps on the bandwagon, this wasnt a stab at women, it works the other way around too, I just wrote it from a mans perspective because I have a willy.
Posted on: Sun, 05 Oct 2014 09:59:06 +0000
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