I knew at that moment that I was looking into the eyes of a ‘Real Mother’. I assured her that I had been happy. That I had felt so much love and family and adoration that it hadn’t ever been something I needed. I told her how my mom had always told me that I was the special one because she got to pick me. THE COERCION OF ADOPTERS - special coz she got to pick her and that made the child feel special. A psychologist would need years to unravel that type of conditioning - I would like to pat that ADOPTIVE MOTHER ON THE BACK. SHE GOT TO PICK AND CHOOSE THE SLAVE SHE BOUGHT AND TELL THEM THEY WERE SPECIAL. AS IF THE CHILD WAS NOT SPECIAL ALREADY. AS IF EVERYONE IS NOT SPECIAL WHAT A CROCK OF BALLONEY. AS IF SHE HADNT COME ALONG AND PICKED THE SPECIAL ONE OFF THE SHELF SHE WOULD PROBABLY ROT IN THAT PLACE... ADOPTION IS CRUEL. ADOPTION IS CRUEL BRAINWASHING FOR A VULNERABLE CHILD BEREFT OF ITS FAMILY TO LOOK AFTER IT. IT WAS BORN SPECIAL. IT REPRESENTED THE BIRTH AND LOVES OF A MILLION COUPLES ACROSS THE DARK AGES TO TODAY - THE FRUIT OF ITS PARENTS. THE FRUIT OF EACH OF ITS GRANDPARENTS. THE CHILD WAS BORN SPECIAL AND WAS LEAD TO BELIEVE FROM THE ADOPTER THAT SHE WAS ONLY SPECAIL BECAUSE SHE WAS BOUGHT AS A COMMODITY. AGAIN REMINDED THAT IT WAS ONLY IN HER COMMODITY VALUE THAT PERHAPS SHE WAS PRETTY, STRONG, HEALTHY, PICKABLE THAT SHE DID NOT LANGUOR IN FOSTER CARE OR OTHER HALF WAY HOUSING SO BECOMING TOTALLY EATEN BY THE HORROR OF WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN. horrific STUFF TO PUT ON A CHILDS UNDERSTANDINGOF SELF - CRUEL LIKE I SAID https://thecowboyslady.wordpress/2014/11/13/a-real-parent/
Posted on: Sat, 15 Nov 2014 07:07:20 +0000
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