I read up on a horrible article about a christian woman throwing a divorce party... she was asked about the cause of her divorces and she simply said sometimes people change, theyre just not the same person they were before I married them, it happens... REALLY? THATS IT?.... smdh My husband and I may be too young and not married long enough to ever understand... but throughout our 4yrs of marriage we have been through the best and worst of times together. Weve been through long suffering and been tested and tried and with faith have overcome. Weve seen eachother at our highest and also witnessed eachother break down at our lowest. We experience arguments, happiness, fed-up moments, joy, pain, love, anger, happiness, sadness, frustrations, sickness, health, stress etc. Just as any christian married couple would. As i was reading through out this whole article i noticed she got one thing right when she said theyre just not the same person they were before marriage and she is absolutely right because when i first met my husband he was only 16yrs old and the only thing on his mind was football. Now he is 23yrs old and a great husband, a full-time dad of two kids, apart of a ministry, and has a full time career... OFCOURSE THEYRE NOT GONNA BE THE SAME PERSON AFTER MARRIAGE! Because we marry and share vows with a real human being not a robot!!! And sometimes people change??? No people ALWAYS change! And til the day you die, they gon KEEP changing... the inly thing thats remains is your crazy love for one another. When you take a sacred oath for better or worse.... through thick and thin you werent just promising to be there when you want to but to be there whenever he needs you to be. Always reminding and renewing your vows DAILY to each other no matter what situation you might be experiencing! As a married couple, we still have alot of growing to do and there are mistakes that lay ahead of us that we have yet to learn from, but you throwing divorce parties practicing defeatism in marriage and saying its okay doesnt help our generation of christian marriages nor the generation after. My husband is my partner in life and I am an extension and reflection of him... wed rather give up on life than ever give up on eachother. But I guess that just depends whether your faith is centered on self or Christ... fix your eyes on Christ alone and let your marriage rest in His promises, and you and your spouse will be drawn closer than ever before, and remain.. Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it: -Psalms 127 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. -matthew 19:6
Posted on: Thu, 23 Oct 2014 17:33:30 +0000
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