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I want us to have this discussion, tshomizam but with ladies in particular. If you loved your partner and really wanted to be with him for the rest of your life, but he was not well resourced at that period, would you give your man money to pay lobola for you? Consider that the alternatives are: (a) he raises the resources on his own, which could take a while, and therefore meaning you must wait, particularly if you dont want to enter into a vat n sit arrangement or (b) he takes out a loan, which means you enter into a marriage with debt that will likely have to be paid off by both of you. So, would you give a man money to lobola you? Those who say they wouldnt, please elaborate on why not?
Posted on: Sat, 17 May 2014 04:54:31 +0000

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