I was in my room thinking of marriage and I asked myself can you marry yourself if possible?? Well everyone needs a partner who completes them, who loves,cherish them bring out the best in them. Who loves them unconditionally makes them feel special,carries them along,encourage s them in tough times. Etc. Well fact is can you do this for yourself? You cant give what you dont have. If you are looking for a job and its requirements are a hnd or bsc result and you have just a waec result you wont get the job. So it is with relationships you expect your lover to do everything for you? What are you doing in return? You want to marry a virgin are you a virgin. You want a woman that sticks to one man...Do you stick to one woman. You want a woman that can cook....Can you cook? You want a woman that can sweep and arrange the house...take care of the kids...Etc. Can you do such too? Fact is many males will say its a womans job. But sometimes your wife might get sick or maybe come late or go for a function in the village. What will you instill in your children when your wife is gone. Ladies Can you marry you? Ooh this guy is too short, ooh this guy eats a lot, ooh this guy likes women, ooh this guy is dull, ooh this guy is stingy. Just so you know the bad you see in people is a reflection of how you see yourself. Can you marry yourself? You dont want a man who beats up his wife? My dear do you command respect or do you deserve for it? You want a man that isnt stingy...how many people have you helped? You dont want a man who keeps late night....do you keep late night? You want a man that doesnt party and goes clubbing...do you? You want a man that loves God? Do you even know who God is? You want a man who stands for the truth? What do you stand for? You want a successful man? Are you in anyway successful? You want a man who caters for the family? How well do you do same for yours? You want a man who loves his parents? Do you beat your parents? Life has a way of bringing things back to you. You cant reap what you didnt sow. If you want good things be good yourself. If you want the best strive to be best. Do your best and leave the rest for God. If you invest in a good company or buy shares in a good company the proceedings will be great. Where are you investing? You do the opposite of what you want and you still pray to God being the righteous judge to give you a loving partner? Invest in your life in a good way and watch the proceedings favor you
Posted on: Sun, 16 Mar 2014 09:18:36 +0000
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