I was so happy to hear from someone after almost 30years! (What a nice surprise!) She said she did a lot of searching to find me.(I never felt that special or important. She just blurted right out that she finally found her long lost father after 40years! She then said, how glad it was to finally learn the real truth.she than went on to say her mom did a great disservice by not telling the truth, and instilling such vicious hate that she lived with for years! She went on to say what a destructive quality hate is! She took a flight to Tennessee for the first time to meet her father and other siblings. She screamed what a happy day! Her father and other family showed her so much love! (Her mom apologized to her ). She said that she learned that one of the saddest things in the world is to be a child who grew up hearing lies and hating their father (or mother) just because one or the other parent have negative issues between the two of them,and use the child as a poor excuse for there mistake instead of working out a way to co_parent the child and have both of them in the child life! The child have heard only one side of the story of his or her life! My friend expressed how glad she looked at the situation in a balanced and diplomatic way! (She is 39 years old now). She said she wanted her two beautiful children to know both sides of their relatives. She recently got married.(not the girls father.) They are both equally in there daughters lives! Even though they are MARRIED to other people, she said to me, she would never do what her mom did to her, by keeping her her children away from their father.( The girls are grown,one is a R.N. the other a News anchor in Tennessee) I was so glad she called me! I hope other young women can learn that revenge is never the answer! You also cut off blessings by teaching a child to be disobedient, disrespectful and rebellious! These negative qualities in permitted hate, quality of SATAN!
Posted on: Mon, 17 Mar 2014 08:26:31 +0000
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