IM A SHITTY FRIEND A good friend of mine helped me realize this today I get invited to parties, birthday parties, events, baby showers, weddings all kinds of shit and very rarely ever go. I always create an excuse as to why I can’t make it OR Even worse I commit to going and then show up for a few minutes and bail The stories I tell myself are: Im too busy with work If I have any free time I’m going to spend it with my family Theres other things I “should” be doing Hell, I don’t even return a text or call for days or sometimes not at all It really sucks to admit that I’m a terrible friend Why do I act this way? I clearly value other things as more important than trying to have or maintain friends Maybe its to avoid pain, in the past I did a lot to help people that just burned me and that sucked! So I guess now its easier to just “know” people rather than actually trying to be someones friend I am extremely lucky to have a few real friends that get it, they know I’m terrible at showing them that I do actually value their friendship. But they put up with my shit because they know I DO CARE and I would do anything for them Realizing today that I am a terrible friend kind of sucked, it was hard to admit that to myself. I WILL commit to daily action to make myself a better friend Thank you my friend for that punch in the face! #knowNOquit
Posted on: Sun, 23 Nov 2014 19:27:10 +0000
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