IM Going To Share A Few Tips On Coping With Loneliness In A Long Distance Relationship So You Can Kip These Feelings At Bay.... (1) Have a regular communication schedule one of d ways of coping with loneliness in a long distance relationship to a regular communication schedule making time to talk on a daily or weekly basis will help u feel connected regardless of how far apart u re with time,eventually u will feel how much communication is necessary to kip u both of satisfied. Ur guy should be initiating texts on fone calls just as much as u re. Bt ur girlfriend is constantly putting a disappearing act leaving u lonely n wondering were she is its time to reconsider d relationship. (2) Have online time together tip dat will help or bond stay strong is to spend some time with each other online. As strenge as it may sound, hanging out online is d equivalent of spending quality time together wen u re in a long distance relationship. Many long distance couples spend time listening to music,surfing d net,watching YouTube videos,playing online games or playing role playing games on video console. It dont really matter wat u do online as long as d Two Of You Are Enjoying it an sharing d experience. (3) Dont hang up ur wings just u re in a long distance relationship does not mean dat u become a hermit starting at a cold screen waiting for ur gal to appear. So guys as long as u re putting time in or relationship an nurturing it,u dont av to hang up ur social butterfly wings. Go out n spend time wit or friends doing fun things dat u enjoy.its a gud idea to check in with or girlfriend throughout d nite so shes a part of d activities even through she cant be there. (4) Take advantage of ur time wen those feelings hits, take advantage of ur time instead of overwhelming ur gal by bombaring her with Im miss u or I wish u were here messages. Those kind of message re gud to send occasionally bt not all d time because they can make him or her feel helpless and frustrated because he or she cant be there for u, so instead of bumming ur gal or guy out with depressions text messages, think of something fun dat u want to learn and pursue dat hobby. This way even if u re in a long distance relationship, u re still growing and learning new things. (5) Virtual movie dates try escaping from ur lonely feelings by watching a movie or having a movie marathon in ur favorite genre. Its even beta if ur gal can watch d movie along with u. Look for movies dat appeal to both of u. Its a gud idea to be open minded wen ur gal or man suggests something u would usually dat involves aliens,vampires or zombies. (6)Reach for or journal A long relationship can be so emotionally painful especially wen long for her or him to touch one thing dat can help alleviate those depressing feelings is to write abt them in a journal. Get a journal especially for ur relationship and make them gud use of it wen ur feelings of despair, frustration and loneliness re palpable. Being able to vent in bottled up inside. (7)Reminded urself why u re doing dis Another way to kip busy or to distract urself from those lonely feelings is to create a scrapbook of long distance relationship. This scrapbook will be visual reminded of why u re putting urself through challenges of long distance relationship. Put ur mementos of ur relationship in this scrapbook. Create a page of all ur d things u love abt ur man or gal like funny or sweet things he or she said to u. Going through ur scrapbook wen ur feelings down will be an instant boost of happiness and it will remind u why dis relationship is worth it. If u like. You can even create a digital scrapbook and share it with ur gal or man. If u re in a long distance relationship an feel dat u belong together, hang in there even wen loneliness threatens to overwhelm u. Many long distance couples have found dat and d emotional turmoil dat they went through while they were apart was worth it in d end. Dont listen to other dat say long distance relationship cant succeed. If theres enough love there and both of u are willing to put in d effort to make it work... Anything is possible pals!!!
Posted on: Sun, 23 Mar 2014 15:02:23 +0000
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