If you are preparing for Military Officer, read the following carefully and prepare for the same. I wish you success. Assaulting attitude with clear-cut resolution in mind without being emotional (i.e. rationale decision which enabling to make greater efforts and create positive momentum), positive voice in head and pep talks to yourself (i.e. energetic, positive, boosting, enthusiastic, recognizing and praising) for ever winning with confidence (i.e. the expectation of a positive outcome), very high energy level and 100 percent concentration on the leading task (accelerates through Hint of praise, Motivation or Scorn, Powerful words, Cheering and Smiling) Willing to work harder with ever maintenance of inner self without being emotional (panic). Attract the attention, support of others, positive feedback and praising through exuding out cheerfulness & carrying on aura of confidence and inspiring yourself as well as others. The confidence (comfortable zone) needs to be built up an advance planning, over preparation of the subject, follow-up of the formula, practice and rehearsals Develop strategies to boost the confidence – keep it working for you the rest of your life Maintaining your surroundings such which inspire people to live up to high standards Out-flow with command on your Body language demeanor (Postures, Gestures, Signs and Signals) & attitude Magnetize other aspirants through ‘Puchhiay na aap ko kya puchh na hai?” Labeling small successes – “Successful”, “High Potential” and “Low Potential” Discard negative feedback, ideas and signals passed by others Don’t assume that treating yourself to good hair cut and smart uniform are frivolous & routine boredom of barrack life. Don’t do these acts of smart turn out to dazzle some one but to built confidence in advance of victory There are some evidence that such feelings are contagious, therefore never venture out of your room with gloomy and burdened feelings, especially in a crowd of your civilian brothers. Hence, prove to be a very good and a successful leader through transforming your Raw Talent to Well Preparedness (i.e. an advance planning, preparation and over preparation) --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Pain following a stressful situation may cause you to seek an instant and often wrong solution. If you are feeling panicked, it is not the time to spring into action as you would be too emotional. And under emotional state one can never take stock of himself. Thumb rule is “Panic makes a small fumble worse”. Management of Stress and Strain – Recognition and Praise are very important. Moreover, Being Positive, Shifting to higher degree thoughts, laughing and recreation, etc. You must be judicious, acknowledge and pass compliments for the hard and sincere efforts of your subordinates; must high light their good deeds. Recognition of efforts does not need to be a big deal but it needs to be genuine, it needs to be pronounced publicly. You must find individual strength and tell him, how you feel about him. Be specific in sharing with people what they have done, that pleases you as boss. Even in marriage husband and wife do not know what their partner really likes about them. Time Management – It avoids panic, makes a man punctual which generates confidence. Pre-planning systematic and methodological approach within stipulated time is key to success. Man must be master of his own time schedule. Remember not a single minute be wasted on trifle issues. Conclusion - Look at your situation and think of yourself as being in the middle of it and involve yourself with responsibilities assigned to you, it would generate satisfaction and confidence, make you an achiever and dependable. Self reliability is an other contributory factor in building confidence. The knowledge of the subject must be acquired thoroughly which will place you in a position of “Puchhiay na app ko kya puchh na hai?” But here is a word of caution “If you believe in yourself so strongly that you act rashly, confidence then can actually make you, stupid”. So handle this characteristic with care and use the precious confidence wisely. Dr. YK Sharma
Posted on: Tue, 04 Jun 2013 12:13:18 +0000
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