If you ask me, the most important question you can ask yourself at any given time is: Did I will this, or was it imposed on me? The strong answer it one way, and the weak another. Even in situations like the one I found myself in with Day, I could sit around and say woe is me, this is too much for one person to bear. But, I know I chose it. I knew how it would end and what it it would be like, and I chose whatever love required, knowing that it would require much more of me one day with someone like her than just risking a break-up and a "broken heart" the way you do in a normal situation. Sometimes I laugh at people inside who whine about their "broken hearts" from some boyfriend or girlfriend they had for a year or two. They have a clue what "broken" even means. The more you view things this way I think, the more you accept that you CHOSE the path, the stronger you will be -- victim talk and blame is for the weak. Every minute in your life can be a turning and every one a choosing. Somewhere you make a choice, and all follows. The shape of your path is visible from the beginning. Just not to you.
Posted on: Tue, 01 Oct 2013 03:57:04 +0000
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