Im not sad about being pregnant & having a baby in my younger years. The thought I should have waited about becoming pregnant has never crossed my mind. I dont feel like Im giving up my life, mainly because Im not, if anything Im starting my life. Im not ashamed of being pregnant at 20 years old, I have never tried to hide any of pregnancy. Im married, been married almost a year now. We having been dating for almost 3 years, yes some of that 3 years has been off & on. Yes, my husband & I have/had are problems, what couple doesnt have problems? Everyone is so quick to judge but unless you are me & my husband (with your not) then you dont know nor do you understand our stories. Sorry, but you cant believe what you hear from others, you can make judgment without truly knowing the whole story. I seriously cant count all the times that my husband & I have been judged. You know, I think me & my husband are doing pretty damn well for our age. We have a place, no we dont own it, but its a nice place. Infact its the second place we have had since moving out of our parents houses at 18 years old, we actually had our first place before graduating high school. Yes, our first place was a low income apartment, you have to start somewhere, & I think it was a great choice we made because me & my husband knew better then getting in over our heads. We dont depend on anyone to pay anything for us nor have we ever asked anyone to pay something for us. Do people help us out with stuff? Yes, we dont ask to then to tho & we always say thank you & try to pay that person back. My husband works a pretty good job, it pays our bills & we still have money to spend. I do not work, I have had jobs before, its really not anyones business if I work or not unless they are paying my bills (which no one is). If my husband wanted me to work (heck, if I wanted to) I would have a job, til theres a day that I have to get a job I probably wont work to be honest & thats not anyones business ;) This is my third pregnancy, I am not ashamed of that! Yes, I do have three children! If you ask me, thats what I will say. Just because two of my childeren live in heaven & I miscarried them doesnt mean they arent my children! There is nothing that pisses me off more then when someone says they arent real childern because I had two early miscarriages. My first pregnancy was while I was in high school, I was a senior, 18 years old, & had two months of school left. I did graduate high school, I do have some college experience. Im not attending college right now, but I do plan on attended again in the future. Since becoming pregnant again I do understand that Im not going to do everything I ever wanted in life but being a good mother to my son will always be the best thing I do with my life & Im very lucky & excited to be pregnant with my son. When I found out I was pregnant the first time, I was not married nor enganged. I was on birth control, didnt take it like I was suppose to obviously lol I was scared but I knew I would be a good mom & my boyfriend and I could afford to have a baby. My second pregnancy wasnt planed with either, I wasnt using birth control & wasnt using anything else to keep from getting pregnant. I wasnt married but I was engaged & I actually found out I was pregnant 3 days before I got married. I was not living at home & I was 19 years old. I didnt have anyone pay my bills & even tho it would be hard at times, we could afford to have a baby. Im now currently pregnant, 18 weeks & 3 days. This is the longest I have been ever pregnant. Im very blessed & so lucky to be pregnant with my son. Everything is going great with this pregnancy, I have had a few things come up but nothing to major. Im truly happy, yea I am some what worried but what new mom isnt? Even with all the planning I have done I still fear things & thats totally fine. I looking forward to becoming the best mom I can be, Im not sad or ashamed. I dont understand why people put down ALL young mothers & fathers, Yes there are some who shouldnt have children but there is people like me & my husband who can support a our child. Me & my husband are great, our marriage is great. We are both over the moon about having our son. We arent giving our life up, I dont know why people keep saying that. We are happy & that should be the only thing that matters. Rant over.
Posted on: Thu, 24 Jul 2014 22:42:28 +0000
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