Imam Shafi N Aziz Nov 27th 2013 Lesson Three :Rulings on Marriage in Islam 3. Prohibited Proposals It is haram for a Muslim man to propose to a divorced or widowed woman during her iddah (that is, the waiting period during which she is not allowed to remarry), for this waiting period is part of the previous marriage and may not be violated. Although one may, during this period, convey his desire for marriage through indirect hints or suggestions, it may not be done through an explicit proposal. Says Allah Taala: And there is no blame on you in what you proclaim or hide in your minds concerning betrothal to women....(2:235) It is likewise forbidden to the Muslim to propose to a woman who is already betrothed to a brother Muslim; the one whose proposal has already been accepted has acquired a right which must be safeguarded in consideration of goodwill and affection among people, especially among his brother Muslims. However, if the first suitor terminates his betrothal or gives the second suitor his permission, there is no harm in proceeding with it. Muslim reported that the Messenger of Allah (peace be on him) said, A Believer is a brother to another Believer. It is therefore not lawful for him to outbid his brother in buying something or to propose to a woman when his brother has done so, unless he gives him permission. And al-Bukhari reported that the Prophet (peace be on him) said, A man must not propose to anther mans betrothed unless he withdraws or gives him permission. To be continued Insha Allah......
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