In ancient Greece, the famed philosopher Socrates .was visited by an acquaintance of his. Eager to share some juicy gossip, the man asked if Socrates would like to know the story hed just heard about a friend of theirs. Socrates replied that before the man spoke, he needed to pass the Triple-Filter test. The first filter, he explained, is Truth. “Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to say is true? The man shook his head. No, I actually just heard about it, and ... Socrates cut him off. You dont know for certain that it is true, then. Is what you want to say something good or kind? Again, the man shook his head. No! Actually, just the opposite. You see ... Socrates lifted his hand to stop the man speaking. So you are not certain that what you want to say is true, and it isnt good or kind. One filter still remains, though, so you may yet still tell me. That is Usefulness or Necessity. Is this information useful or necessary to me? A little defeated, the man replied, No, not really. Well, then, Socrates said, turning on his heel. If what you want to say is neither true, nor good or kind, nor useful or necessary, please dont say anything at all. --Jennifer Cook OToole, The Asperkids (Secret) Book of Social Rules (Jessica Kingsley Publications, 2012).
Posted on: Sun, 03 Aug 2014 23:38:43 +0000
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