Insert #69 a cheating wife (PG SLVN) Three weeks later,the negotiations for Tebogos hand in marriage already started.Everything went well,no bumps as I expected,Tebogo wanted a big wedding while Martin wanted to settle for a small occassion.Tebogos parents also wanted something big,their reasoning was that,she was their first daughter,so they wanted everything to be perfect.Anyway Hope and I were in the kitchen Hope:Was with Martin,he is stressed Me:The wedding thing? Hope:Why are women so difficult?Martins budget doesnt allow anything big,and Tebogo doesnt want to understand Me:Theyl sort it out Hope:I hope so Me:You hoping Hope? He tickled me,I laughed Hope:Nothing beat the smile on your face,my mission in life is to make you happy,and our kids,to provide for you Me:My mission in life is to take care of you,to love and to respect you We kissed,he set the table,and we ate,after dinner I cleaned the kitchen Tebogo:My mother want to come over tomorrow Me:Oh,Ill talk to Hope then Tebogo:Thank you She walked out of the kitchen,I wiped my hands and joined my family,Hope was reading them a bedtime story,we prayed with them and put them to bed,we then showered and got in bed. The following day,it was a Friday,Martin was around,I was undoing Charitys hair Martin:You good with kids Me:Iam a woman hello?women are good with kids Martin:The time we have our own Ill bring her here Me:Never,yal want to make me a grandmother He looked down Me:Talk to me Martin:About? Me:I know you Martin,whats bothering you? Martin:its Tebogo,she is always nagging about the wedding,I cant afford all she wants Pearl Me:Have you talked to her? Martin:I have,her mother is putting her under a lot of pressure Hope walked in,with Tebogo,and Tebogos mother,I stood up and greeted her,I showed her the spare room.Martin left. Later that day,I was in the garden with Hope Tebogo:Pearl,can I talk to you? Hope stood up and walked in the house Me:Come sit here Tebogo:Thank you,its my mother,she doesnt want a small occasion,my uncles also,they want a big and expensive wedding Me:Are you marrying your mother?or your uncles? She shook her head Me:Your uncles,did they help anywhere in your upbringing? She shook her head Me:Do you want to lose Martin? Tebogo:Ni,I love him Me:Good,you are marrying Martin,already your parents have demanded a lot of money from Martin for bogadi,he doesnt have money,all he is left with now is for the wedding,lenyalo ga se mokete,there is a wedding,and then there is marriage,if you are going to spend all your money on your wedding,then you are not going to have a happy marriage,thing is you want to impress the people who are not willing to meet you half way,if they want a big wedding,they should contribute for it,not put Martin under a lot of pressure,this is why there are so many divorce cases nowdays,you rush to impress your parents,because a man loves you,he takes a loan to make you happpy,after that,the loan starts deducting,no more money for entertainment,for kids,for furniture,next thing the very same parents you wanted to impress tell you that o nyetswe ke lehuma what happens after that?you start disrespecting your husband calling him all sort of names,calling him Tinto,you end up cheating,is that what you want? Tebogo:No,I dont want that She said with her eyes teary Me:put your foot down,tell your parents that you dont have that kind of money,talk to Martin,and stop stressing your man,we both know his status,he doesnt need stress,the ball is in your court babe,build your home,dont let your mother build your home for you,she has hers,marriage is between two people,dont let a third person in. I stood up and walked back in,I went to the kitchen and prepared a meal for my family,thirty minutes Tebogos mother stormed in the kitchen TM:So you are now my daughters mother akere?you make decisions for her Me:Iam sorry but I dont understand TM:How old are you?what do you even know about marriage?you are a boss in your family not in mine Me:And you are standing under my roof,what happens in my house concern me,I know a whole lot more than you,you chose a man over your own daughter,your daughter was abused right under your nose,and you never said anything,if you want a big wedding,have it for yourself,dont take out your failures on the poor girl,Martin loves her,and she loves him too,thats all that matters,unlike you she is not with a man for money,and am not going to sit and watch them drown in debt because of your selfish heart Hope:Babe thats enough Me:Stay out of this Hope I turned to TM Me:whats wrong with you?she lost her virginity to her stepfather,to your boyfriend,a man whos been with you for ages and is still not married to you,do you why?because he knows you are not worth being called a wife,what kind of mother are you?selling er own daughter to her boyfriend,how does it feel sleeping with the same man who enjoyed your daughter?and you have the guts to come to my house and ask me about marriage while you are not even married yourself,and what does my age got to do with this?age doesnt define maturity,and clearly being a mother doesnt change anything,Ill break till I bend to make sure that Tebogo and Martin have the best marriage,and seein that you failed as a mother,I might as well take the honours of being her mother,I have been doing that anyway. I walked past her and got my wallet,I called the kids Me:Lets go get takeaways,Iam not in the mood for cooking Hope took his wallet and keys and we all walked out
Posted on: Tue, 21 Oct 2014 09:29:21 +0000
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