It can be really difficult to separate ones love for family, children, friends, community, religious/spiritual group, or ones place of work from the specific relationship(s) with a narcissistic person. When a group is relatively healthy, everything is supposed to feel like one thing, with parts that make up the whole: The whole is greater than the sum of its parts. So separating individual relationships from one another is not that important, and often not needed at all. But when one or more of the individuals within a group has Narcissism, that will affect the entire dynamic of the group, as well as each part. So analysis of the parts and dynamics of ones group is often important for figuring out whats going on, who is who, what is what, and how to change ones own situation or position. Of course the Narcissists in the group are likely to try to smokescreen or drastically rebel against such analysis, because their control depends on their influencing the dynamics of the group. This can be when scapegoating begins for some people, when they start to ask questions, point things out, talk to anyone outside the group like a therapist, doctor, teacher, or a friend who isnt part of the group about some of the things that are going on.
Posted on: Wed, 31 Dec 2014 01:05:16 +0000
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