It does not matter how long you have known them or how special what you have is to you, if your beloved is never there. I keep asking myself how some people can stand to be with someone who is never there and treats them like a disturbance. Like a bug on their wall. Love has respect, my people. It will not belittle and condescend! If they are attacking you and making you feel bad and foolish for wanting to see them or communicating, you need to step back. Life is not a thing to spend with someone who thinks you are a bother. Love is beautiful. It makes you want to talk, to be together, to share and always be in good terms. Thats love. If what youre getting is the opposite... Should I put it in French or Spanish? Go home, please. You need someone who is into you. Someone who, even if they are busier then Bill Gates, wants to be with you and talk with you all the time and, says it. Not someone you have to force. We live in a society now where a lot of ladies are men are settling. As far as they are concerned they cannot get the real deal so they manage what they can get. Thats a big problem. The real thing DOES exist and you CAN have it. Know your worth and your standards and wait it out. Dont yield and just run to the altar out of fear and shame for your age. Some things are not worth it. No one can be there 24/7. Not unless they are idle, bed ridden or something else but, they will make the effort to show up often and communicate a lot. It will happen because they love you and dont want to be away from you. If youre going to spend your life with someone, be sure that person wants you in theirs and loves and respects you as a person. Know for sure that they want to always be by your side. Anything else is a problem and will only cause you heartache. #Adooshima
Posted on: Fri, 06 Jun 2014 07:05:09 +0000